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30 Days of Gratitude – Day 25: SHE SAID YES!


Yesterday, our daughter was engaged to the perfect guy for her!

Josh gave her a surprised proposal after church with her church family watching from a distance. We all knew, but she did not. :) They actually met in that same spot two and a half years ago.

Then we celebrated with our church family!

Because we are Christians… and we love celebrating God’s goodness!

We are excited…VERY excited! This is our first child to be engaged so it’s all new territory for us. We’ve gone from scared to excited, from fearful to hopeful, to overwhelmed with joy!  Here is Emma with Jeff, his face pretty much sums it up! I am grateful that Jeff and Josh get along so well. It really is like gaining a son and not loosing a daughter.

Josh’s mom was here from Florida to be a part of this very special day!

 Now for the planning. I’m thinking about writing an e-book about how to do a classy wedding on a shoestring budget as we tread through these waters over the next few months.  :)

Join us each day for the month of November and share what you are grateful for, you can leave a comment or link up!



Week in Review 9/30/12 – The 2012 Heritage of Hope Costume Ball

Last Saturday we hosted the first Heritage of Hope Costume Ball.

This ball was to help us raise funds for the adoptions of our 3 children we have been caring for for the last 8 months.

It was a GREAT SUCCESS!

We had about 250-300 people.

We saw so many friends that we have not seen in a while…

and met many, many new friends!

This ball was packed with so much emotion for us,

not just the fact of raising funds for our adoptions,

but it was at a similar ball we hosted 2 years ago,

in this very building that Emma and Josh actually met.

Josh was out of town this past week and we didn’t expect to be able to see him again until Thanksgiving, but he made a SURPRISE appearance!

(Josh, Emma and our son Josh)

 

This was our 5th ball that we’ve hosted. What I love most is that they are family events.

It is a wholesome way for families and especially young people to get to meet others and have a great time! And I really love when the fathers dance with their daughters!

Thank you to everyone who came out to support this event! Our hope is to host one ball a year to help fund adoptions for other families.

You can see the rest of the pictures from the ball HERE!

Storing Memories for When They are 92!

Now that most of my kids are grown, it’s funny the things they tell me they remember, those special days or outings that are their favorite memories, so many things that I don’t remember doing, things that were so simple.

So this morning I’m up, thinking through my to-do list and realized I need to do something *special* yet simple with the little ones, because today may be one of those days they will remember when they are 92, and they will tell their great-grandchildren about their growing up and how God had blessed them with a family that loved them.

Perhaps we can walk down to the lake with a quilt, PB&J’s and read a couple chapters of Little House in the Big Woods?  Or go for a hike? Or maybe something so simple as singing hymns (which we do almost every day), or playing Bingo after the school work is done.

Surely we can all find an hour or two in our day to simply enjoy each other.

Let us not get so busy knocking out that to-do list that we don’t enjoy the simple pleasures of conversation, walks and laughter.

Take pictures, journal, blog, even just a little bit on a regular basis, because you will forget, but you can document, and help them remember later.

2012 County Fair Winners

Those of you that have read this blog for long know we love the county fair! We love getting out and seeing people that we don’t see very often.

The kids love the rides!

We also love the opportunities to enter items we’ve made or grown. It’s also a great way to make some money, we’re all for finding was to teach the kids to be creative and productive.

This was the little kids first time to go to a county fair. They loved making things to enter.

Cherish came home with 4 blue ribbons and a yellow one, along with $38 in prize money!

Hayden won 3 red ribbons and a blue which equaled $22!

(Look at how dirty those boy’s nails are! I didn’t realize until I put this picture up.)

And Emma, this was her last year to do her individual 4-H booth. She won $60.

Our Adoption Fund Raiser

7 months ago we received a phone call asking if we would be willing to take 3 children into our home as their safety plan. The children were about to be placed into the State’s foster care system because the mother had no family willing to take them.

Because we are not a licensed foster care and the mom did not know us (we were connected through mutual friends) the social worker asked that the mother also stay with us for 2 weeks while the children adjusted to us. We were all in agreement to do this.

The mother was also in agreement that we could homeschool the children and since we were not technically foster care the State could not object to this.

There are a LOT of details that I can not share right now but please believe me that I now believe that God ordains our footsteps in a whole new way.

Their birth mom stayed with us 3 days and then left. The State agreed to let the children stay here.

We’ve been taught for 21 years never to allow a social worker into our home without a warrant. This year we have allowed 2 social workers and one State attorney (appointed by the court for the kids) in our home. We stepped way out of our comfort zone. We’ve had a social worker in our home every month for 7 months, we’ve been finger printed and had a criminal back ground check. We did all of this without any State “support” (monies) other than them paying for our finger prints.

We’ve had to deal with people that we knew were lying to us. We don’t like playing ‘games’ but we are willing to do what we need to to protect, provide for and love these kids. In the words of the judge, “They deserve a chance!”

We are SO GLAD we said “YES”

…these children are worth the sacrifice!

We are glad we didn’t say:

  • we are too old…
  • or too busy…
  • or ready to enjoy a slower season of life now that our children are grown…
  • or we can not afford it…
  • or we do not want to get involved in a messy situation…
  • or we may get our hearts broken because we don’t know how this will end…

If you need an excuse, you’ll always find one. Perhaps our reply should always prayerfully be, “Yes, Lord, Your will be done.”

Five months after the children coming into our home we were granted full custody.

According to Alabama state law a child is “abandoned” if they do not receive regular visits and support from a parent(s) for 6 months. We are 7 months into this. You can read more about our journey here.

We are now filing for private adoption for all three children (they have the same birth mother). To raise the remainder of the funds we need we are hosting a

Costume Ball!!!

This ball is a family event with Scottish, folk and line dances (think Virginia Reel kind of dances).

The Ball will be September 29, 2012. If you live locally and would like to attend send me an email and I’ll send you more details!

If you do not live locally but would like to donate to our adoption fund you can GIVE HERE.




 

We are also running all of our products, DVDs and e-books at 30% off (excluding the Bundle and Gift Bags). All the profits will go toward our adoptions.

Visit our store here.

Use the code “ADOPT” when checking out.

Jeff and Kathy Brodock

PO Box 455

Oneonta, AL 35121

All in a Day’s Work

This is MY husband!

Why does he work this hard…6 days a week?

2 reasons:

  • He LOVES his family!
  • He was created by his Redeemer to give his all, to lay down his life for his family.

Because he gives his all, physically and emotionally, when this man comes home he is HOME! I have never had to worry about him wanting more than me…more than us.  He is a good and faithful man.

Today he turns ‘almost 50′, ;) or at that is what I tell him his 49th birthday is.  God has been good to all of us through him!

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In the mornings when I do our Bible, music, and character trait time with the kids I always end this time with prayer; we take turns praying aloud and I always pray last. I’ve recently started adding to my prayer with them,

“…Lord, thank you for the work you’ve given all of us. May we ALL be faithful, giving our all, whether it be dad on the job, or us doing our chores and school work and may You be pleased with us.”

Some work is paid for by money, but most of our work in life is paid for by the satisfaction that we’ve done our best as unto the Lord!

I always end our prayer time with, “May we be aware of the needs of people around us, as we serve You Lord by serving others.”

Happy birthday, Jeff Brodock, and thank you for setting the pace for our family!

When you became an adult and set up your own home could you efficiently :

  • prepare nutritious meals
  • balance a budget
  • make home repairs
  • keep your home clean and organized
  • nurture healthy, loving relationships?

These areas are usually a struggle for people because they are not taught from a young age how to show personal responsibility and diligence within the home.

Teaching Good Things is dedicated to encourage you and your family to become more equipped in the area of practical skills, strong character and family unity.  We have a passion for encouraging young entrepreneurs and home education.

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A Double Batch of Morning Goodness

This morning I thew together some muffins for breakfast, I made a double batch so the kids would have something to snack on, and hopefully some for tomorrow’s breakfast.

I used a basic muffin recipe and adjusted it a little, substituting half wholewheat and adding some carrot scraps from our juicing.  Once you make something a few times you get a feel for what looks and and feels right, so it is easy to improvise on a recipe.

I sit at my table, I look at the faces, I hear and see the goodness around me and I ask myself shall I dare ask for more? More responsibility? More work? More sweet reward?

Yes, fill my cup Lord. Keep me busy about Your work, keeping home and hearts.  Please never allow me grow complacent, nor greedy. 

My man is a hard working man! He’s put in a lot of labor intensive work this week, about 60 hours in this Alabama heat and humidity.  This morning he had a few hours before he had to leave. We gathered around the table to eat our muffins hot form the oven with some honey butter melted in the middle of them. We usually do our Bible reading in the evening, but today we did it this morning. It was one of those sweet, sweet moments I want to always remember…I’m glad my camera was close by.

Laughter is Good!

“A glad heart makes a cheerful face…”

Proverbs 15:13

We have a lot of silliness around here…and it is good!

Although Jeff nor I are very humorous people, we enjoy good humor; which is good because our kids all got a double dose of it! Thankfully, the 3 new kids have joyful spirits themselves which equals some good times!

Wouldn’t life be so much better if we didn’t take ourselves so seriously? If we’d learn not to be easily offended and believe the best in people?

Jeff had to work late tonight so after supper we pushed back the furniture and turned on some YouTube karaoke music and sang…loudly…and poorly, but it was fun! Then we pulled up a few songs and did some line dancing…poorly, but it was fun!

A Tuesday night + some silliness = Great Family Memories

The Baptizing of Children

This past Sunday we had the honor of having our 3 youngest baptized. What a glorious and humbling day. These children have been in our home for 6 months and it still amazes me at what God has done! It was humbling to reflect how God chose to entrust us with these precious souls! US! Even though we have so many character flaws and struggle in many areas, He still chose to bless us with these children that needed a home, that needed a family…that needed HIM!

They have been so receptive of the Gospel, especially Cherish, who is like a little sponge begging for more. I have no doubt that her spiritual gift is discernment. She can see through situations and can connect the dots very quickly.  When we are doing our reading in the Child’s Story of the Bible, it is so funny because she has her own little commentary when we read of disobedience, repentance and victory. :)

                     

Cherish has been asking for months to be baptized. When God gives you eyes to see it’s really not a difficult thing to understand. We’ve spent 6 months teaching these children about God’s mercy to them. We have been teaching creation, the fall of man and the need of a Savior. They have learned the Ten Commandments, The Apostle’s Creed and the first 40+ questions in the Catechism (no we are not Catholic). So we felt that they had a good grasp of who God is, although that is a lifelong process which will never be accomplished until we cross on over and see Him face to face.

This is Hayden! This is a boy that adores Jeff, whom he now calls “Dad”.  It’s pretty funny to watch him follow behind Jeff. He acts just like him, dresses like him…he even insist in pockets on his t-shirts like Dad. This boy likes to pray. We’ve had some pretty difficult situations happen since they have been here and he has witnessed Jeff go to prayer; he has watched Jeff pray over our van as he worked on it for 3 weeks along with many other specific needs. It dawned on me one day that God was using many of our ‘situations’ to teach this little boy about trust in God and about prayer.  These are the most important lessons of life.

A few weeks ago we received some bad news about a Jeff’s dad, Jeff was upset and Hayden saw him tear up.  It broke his heart to see his dad so upset. One of our girls saw him go out to our pavilion and pray. How beautiful to see this little boy run to Jesus with his requests.

About a month after Hayden arrived here I was out hanging clothes on the line; our line runs from up on our deck to our shed. I was hanging clothes and Hayden was riding his bike around the house, he came rolling pass me and all I could hear was him running down a list of things he was thanking God for, “Thank you, God, for Dad, Thank you God for …” it was the first fruits of our labor with these kids. It completely melted my heart as I started saying, “Thank you, God for these children and the work you have given us!”

And then there is Sweet Peach! This girl is so full of energy and almost always smiling.  She walks around the house singing all the time, as does Hayden.  To hear her sing, He’s Still Working on Me is a constant reminder to be patient, that a life of holiness is a process of sanctification. Peach is learning all about the circle of blessing as she blesses us each and every day.  We can learn so much about our relationship with God from children.

And what a blessing to have a church family to share in our journey, because they are a key part of the journey.  We are in this together, we are one Body, the Bride of Christ. We celebrated with a time of refreshments and fellowship after church!

And now about baptism. I do not want this post to be a debate over Infant Baptism vs Believer’s Baptism. Baptism is a symbol, it is not our salvation.

For our family we have chosen to treat our children as Believers. They are being raised in a Christian home, expected bear the responsibility of a Believer, so we want to give them the blessings of a Believer.  Although these children were not born a Brodock, they are expected to act like a Brodock and they receive the blessings and privileges of a Brodock. They may choose to walk away from us one day, but while they are in this house they will be loved as a Brodock. They may choose to walk away from God one day, that is between them and God, until then we want them to experience all the duty, as well as the privileges, of being a Christian.

Case for Infant Baptism: The Historic Paedo-Baptist Position

“Now when does Abraham receive the sign? Before he has faith? Or after he has faith? Before he realizes the content of the promises of the covenant, or after he actually realizes the content of the promises. Manifestly he receives the sign of the promise after he’s received the substance of the promise, after he’s believed, after he’s repented, right? Then he is given the sign of circumcision. But not only is this sign of circumcision which indicates all that’s contained in the promise of redemption is given to Abraham after he has faith and has been repentant and all the rest, and is regenerate and so on, God not only permits but explicitly commands the infant son of Abraham receive the sign of this same covenant. And not only is it commanded to Abraham and to Isaac and to Jacob, but when Moses delays it, God threatens to kill him for withholding the sign of the covenant from his infant son.

That’s very important because here in the Old Testament the sign of God’s covenant of redemption is not only permitted to be given to the children of believers, it is commanded of God so to be done. And if faith has the remotest portion of the content, of the promise of Abraham, and if it does not, then we would have to say that Abraham is justified by some other means, or some other instrument than faith which I don’t know any Baptists who would want to argue that. The point is, that if he has even the smallest portion of the content of the meaning of that sign of the Old Covenant, then we have to say that we have explicit biblical teaching that God Almighty, at least in one time in history, has explicitly commanded that a sign of faith be administered to a person who does not yet possess that which the sign signifies.

So the first point we have to see here that’s emphatically taught in the Old Testament is that the sign of redemption is commanded of God to be given to infants, not to all infants indiscriminately, but only to those who are in the covenant community, to the visible household of faith which I’m going to take the liberty to call the Old Testament church. “

                                     …Read the rest here.

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