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More Thoughts of Tom Lee and Updates



This video clip reminds me of how Tom Lee lived, giving his all for his family. The way he died was a reflection of how Christ died, laying his body down to save his family.

Please continue to pray for the Lee family and the struggles they are enduring. They have some special prayer request on their site.

The Crawford family (of 11) moved into a small 2 bedroom/1 bathroom house today. They will reside there until their home is rebuilt. They are doing well and hoping to get some sort of routine established.

The kindness and generosity of so many has been overwhelming, thank you to all that have given!

God is good all the time!

Tool Drive - Tornado Relief

 

Teaching Good Things is sponsoring a Tool Drive to help some of the families in Shoal Creek Valley, AL, who lost all their tools in the April 27, tornado.

There are a lot of people willing to help rebuild, but tools are scarce.

These families not only need tools to rebuild, but because the live in the country, have animals and work construction they will need tools even after their homes are rebuilt.

If anyone would like to donate a new or a good used (in excellent working condition) tool it would be greatly appreciated. You may donate the actual item or if you would like to donate the monies toward an item be sure to designate that on your donation. If you would like to give $5 or $10 towards an item and I’ll post what has been given toward that item.

Please do not donate broken tools, time and money are a big issue, thank you for understanding.

Most Needed (2 of each):

  • Reciprocating Saws
  • Table Saws
  • Circular Saws
  • Air Nailers (framing nailer)
  • Air Compressors
  • Brad Nailers
  • Miter Saws
  • 18 Volt Drills w/batteries
  • 4′ Levels
  • 8′ Ladder
  • 4 Air Hoses
  • 1/2 and 3/8 Socket Sets
  • Heavy Duty Floor Jack
  • Wrenches

 

You can e-mail me ( kathy AT teachinggoodthings DOT com ) and I can give you the details as where to send them or drop them off. I will update quantities as needed.

Be Able to Jump into Action with Confidence!

For the last couple years I have prayed that my children (remember they are older teens and 20 now) would see real heart ache, to see suffering, not that I wanted it to happen to them, but to see that there are so many in need. I wanted them (and myself) moved to deeper levels of compassion for others…and passion to serve. I want our hands busy and dirty!

We live in such a comfortable culture, entertained to death, so apathetic to everything and so self absorbed!!! Even most good Christians live a complacent life. I want more for my kids, I want more for myself!

We have a lot of struggles, but we have never really seen true suffering.

I had actually hoped we would be able to go to Haiti. I thought for sure that would be one way to be able to serve in a truly needy place and for our family to experience the depths of suffering and draw closer to Christ as we put our hands and feet to work.

I want us to be doers!!!

Two weeks ago God allowed us to see devastation and suffering. I never dreamed it would be right down the road from us, I never dreamed it would be to people we knew personally and loved dearly!

I am not glad that this has happened, but I am so VERY thankful for all that we are learning, I am so very thankful to be a part of the Body of Christ, doing my *small* part in ministering to the Saints and the lost.

I had one sweet blog reader write and tell me how much she wished she was here to help, but that she had small children. My reply to her was:

“You do all you can right now to teach your children all you can, so that when they are a bit older and a desperate situation COMES TO YOU, your family will be prepared to act! You can be one of the first responders! “

Make sure your children are well skilled so they can jump in and do what is needed.

I was so thankful on the night of the tornado that my husband and son knew how to use the chainsaws.

What a blessing that my daughter was confident enough to walk up to a total stranger whose family had just been killed and console her and pray for her.

How thankful we are that our kids are so familiar with with construction that they could help destruct what was left of a collapsed home during the clean up.

I love that the girls and I were able to prepare enough food for 5 large families that first day after the tornado. We are used to cooking for big crowds so it was a piece of cake for us.

I’m thankful that our girls were willing to not only clean up rubbish, but also help care for the small children. They jump in and do what they need to do.

*PLEASE don’t think I am bragging (we have LOTS of weak areas), but my point is, we strive to live go-getter lives. We have always tried to expose our children to as many real life situations as possible.

 

The tornado hit sites are covered with families working together. It is such a blessing to watch the kids along side their dad to do whatever needs to be done!


The past two weeks have really brought forth the fruit of 20 years of parenting and training in such a huge way!

For those of you with younger children…TEACH THEM! Teach them as much as you can, then find others that can teach them!

Look for smaller ways to serve and learn.

Can you make food for a soup kitchen?

Can they do yard clean ups for the elderly? Wash windows?

LOOK! Look all around you to ensure that your children know as many REAL LIFE skills as possible, not only will this make their every day life easier, but they will be able to jump into action with confidence when a crisis happens!

Limit the entertainment and the “it’s all about me” thinking!

Raise up your children in a way that they will be ready to go out as a mighty army to serve and build the Kingdom!

They NEED that childhood of basic training to equip them to be strong, compassionate and skilled leaders that are full of courage!

 

Tornado Relief -Updates


THANK YOU to all of you that have so sacrificially given to the people in our area that lost so much in the April 27, 2011 tornadoes.

Many of you have emailed and called wanting to know specifically how to help. What a blessing to be joint workers in the Kingdom of God!!! As you all help in whatever form you can, supplies, food, monies, hugs, clean up, building, and most importantly prayer, we are doing exactly what God commands us to do, we are taking dominion of the earth for His glory! We are loving our neighbor by coming along side them and meeting their needs, this brings glory to the Father.

 

Because there are so many effected in our area there are several ways to keep up and see where you fit in the best.

Our church:

Christ Church Branchcove

Current Needs and Contact Info

Reconstruction Opportunities

If you want to send cards, letters or money/gift cards you can send them to my PO Box and I’ll be sure they get to where you want them.

Kathy Brodock

PO Box 455

Oneonta, AL 35121

Up- to-date info for helping the Lees:

http://shoalcreekvalleyrelief.blogspot.com

Here is the Lee’s family blog, notice how she praised her husband just a few days before God called him home.

Sherry is looking for a home while they rebuild, and the 2 daughters have begun daily physical therapy and are still in wheelchairs. Please pray for complete healing!

 

Both of these sites are directly helping with the Lees and the Railroad House.

SCVConstruction

Shoal Creek Valley Relief

All of these sites are also going to help other neighbors, so if you have a specific place you want your services/donation to go, please make note of it.

Alpha Ranch Garry and Phyllis Livertte (Kelly’s parents)

Generation Cedar -Kelly’s Blog

Alabama Tornado - Category Post on this site

Robin Remembering Tom -Tom’s Spirit was Caught and Good-Bye Mr. Tom

 

We are Bound by Blood - Alabama Tornado Part 2

You can read about the night the tornado hit here.

That night was a living nightmare.

Among our friends, three homes were destroyed and one damaged along with one life lost.

We have a large Christian homeschool community here that spans several counties. Not only are we large in number but we are large in love for our brothers and sisters.

During the sermon Sunday one of our elders retold the series of events that happened since Wednesday night.

“We are blood family…bound by the blood of Christ. And when one of us suffers, we all suffer. If one of our family loses all that is normal, we all lose what is normal. When I pulled into Shoal Creek and saw the devastation all I could think was ‘I’m not leaving here without my family.” ~Ted Phillips

Jeff, Josh, me and the girls, along with most of the Huie family were right behind the first responding officials. I am so glad they did not make us go back, but I really don’t think they had a choice, we would have walked (in Jeff’s case, ran) cross lots to get to our people!

I am amazed at how beautiful the body of Christ has been as people and supplies have flooded in from all over, not only from our area, but from other states and countries!

Immediately local churches of all denominations were coming with food and drink for the workers.

There have been hundreds of people helping with feet and hands on the ground in one form or another.

It is going to be a long, hard road to travel together but this is what we are called to do.

Beautiful are the feet of those who bring good news. Romans 10:15

There were so many people working at all 3 houses, trying to find and salvage what we could. Some people brought their chain saws to remove trees, some brought tractors, most brought willing hands to do whatever needed to be done. It felt like everything was coated with a thin layer of insulation.

Some girls and women sorted clothes at their homes that were salvaged,

and then they washed and dried them.

Some women and girls cooked and served food for all the workers.

 

One government relief worker came to the command center (tent in the yard) at one of the homes Friday were we were working ( I was actually manning calls at that time), insisting that we take whatever the Government was willing to hand out. I just looked at Kelly (homeowner) with a look of, “Should I or shouldn’t I?” Because it was her ‘home’ I kept my comments to myself and just said, “Thank you”. I really wanted to say, “Don’t bring the government in here and slow things down!!!!! The money is not free and it comes with a HUGE burden for many years to come, the last thing we need is more debt.” What we need is to love our neighbor, really love them!!!

As Ted said Sunday, “The mission field has come to us.”

We must have our families healthy and strong so we can serve others who have no one.

God is bringing much beauty from these ashes. Thank you to all of you that have been giving, whether it be in the form of labor, finances, supplies or prayers. You truly are building the Kingdom of God with your great acts of service!

Our Sermon from the Sunday after the tornado.

Kelly’s blog:

I am Persuaded - Her parents lost their home.

Pictures and Videos

Robin’s Blog

The Night the Tornado Hit

Ways to Help:

You can send gift cards/checks to my PO Box. I will get them to Kelly or the Lees, this will help so they can use the funds where most needed asap. and not have to pay PayPal fees.

Kathy Brodock

PO Box 455

Oneonta, AL 35121

or you can give through our church:

Christ Church Branchcove

Here is a slide show with some pictures from last week:


Part 1
Part 3 -Needs and ways to help.

The Night the Tornado Hit - Part 1

I know I need to document our experience with the tornado, but I’m having a hard time mustering up the words. I know I need to write it all down before I forget the details, even though I keep going over it in mind constantly. This is going to be pretty long so I understand if you just want to move on to something a bit more light-hearted.

Olivia and I take our cameras everywhere, mainly because we blog,

little did we know what laid ahead of us this night!

April 27, 2011

Wednesday morning I was awoken by hail hitting my bedroom window, that is stronger than a cup of coffee to get you going! Shortly after that our power went out. Jeff and Josh were out most of the day cutting trees with the fire department.

All day long the weather guys kept telling us bad storms were coming and to take it seriously. Late in the afternoon Jeff insisted we stay at the fire department (their power was on) and it might be safer than our house. There were several fellow firefighters there too. We watched the TV and the sky…

we even watched things fall from the sky, aluminum siding, shingles, papers…it was all so strange. Some of the papers were from Tuscaloosa, 160 miles away!!!

The man that lives next to the fire department found a $100 in his yard!!!

Which at the time was kind of funny, but now it’s not…

we had no idea the suffering that came with the bill!

 

We heard a tornado had hit Shoal Creek Valley where many of our friends lived. I tried calling and got no answer. I called Robin and asked her to try to call the Boyds, I didn’t have their number in my cell phone. I knew it was taking her a long time to call me back. Meanwhile some of the Huie family (dear friends and church family) had pulled up at the fire department to talk. We were all curious about our friends 30 minutes away in the Valley.

Robin called me back and said the Crawfords home was gone. We then heard that people were dead. Jeff and Josh ran to grab the chain saws and flashlights; then they took off in Josh’s truck and the Huie’s suburban. Shortly after they left, Trish (Mrs. Huie), Olivia, Emma and I decided that we needed to go too. I think it was 8:00.

Driving down there in the dark with rain and lightening, we listened to the radio for reports, thoughts raced through my mind wondering who was dead, was it Kelly? Was it her children? Was it Aaron? Was it the Boyds or Leses? I couldn’t picture in my mind Kelly’s home being gone, I spend a lot of time there. At the same time I was thinking how my husband was going to be so mad at me for heading down there without his protection (anyone that knows him knows I am his #1 priority!). I fret quietly…Trish frets out loud…she was saying all the tings I was thinking.

There are two ways into the Valley. The guys were about 15 minutes ahead of us (not knowing we were coming) and they were turned around to come in the long way; come to find out they were only letting emergency crews in on the short end. By the time we got there the guys were just turning to go the long way and they were RIGHT IN FRONT OF US! It is a miracle that we ended up at the same place at the same time and them in front!!! This became a very important part of the night.

Josh’s truck was the first one behind the first responders (county/city trucks?), then the Huie’s suburban, then me in a minivan with women not dressed or prepared for a cool, rainy night…Olivia had on flip flops and a skirt! We had NO CLUE what we were about to drive into. I expected some trees down, but not 6 1/2 miles of downed trees and power lines!!! And it wasn’t a few tress here and there, it was piles of trees!

For 5 hours Jeff, Josh and John, along with other men, cut through downed trees with flashlights and the lights of trucks. They cleared one lane of the road for us to squeeze through.

At one point the trees were not movable and the trucks were going around them making a mud pit. Fear came over me because my minivan did not have 4 wheel drive, I knew I would not make it; I dreaded the thought of hindering the people behind me trying to get through to help. About that time John came walking back to me and gently reassured me that I was NOT going to be able to make it through the mud, especially with a FLAT TIRE!!! I must have popped it as I scraped through the last bunch of trees. He got in the driver’s seat and pulled it as far out of the way as possible, then all of us girls got in the suburban.

Jed Huie, 17, was driving Josh’s truck; Johnny Huie, 19, was left to stay with us in the suburban. John ran on with a chain saw to catch up with Jeff and Josh. Dozens of men would walk past us carrying chain saws.

Duane, Johnny, Trish

Then we saw a familiar face, Duane Prittchet, another dear friend of ours, who also lives 30 minutes away. He confirmed to us that it was Tom Lee (husband and father to 13), that had died and that 2 of his daughters were injured, Duane was on his way to the front line.

Johnny begged his mom to let him go on with the other men, we all just wanted to get to our friends! Trish ended up driving the suburban and Olivia 20, drove Josh’s truck.

(This picture was taken 2 days later, but it is what the men worked through during the night.)

We just inched on up as the men cleared. Occasionally a tractor would come trough, what a welcomed site they were!

At one point we were stuck sitting for and hour or so, we heard there was a gas leak. We were sitting in front of 2 houses that were just a pile of bricks and rubble. We watched injured people walk by. Then we saw people walking up and begin to yell, and scream, and run. It was horrible! Family and friends were finding out that this family died. I have no words to describe this scene. Finally some rescue trucks made their way in and a school bus that was all lit up. When they pulled up in the driveway the inside lights were turned off, we realized they were loading dead bodies. I watched the coroner walk away, he was in high demand that night.

While all of that was happening others around us were pleading for help as their loved ones were trapped up the road, one lady way crying out that she couldn’t find her brother. We were helpless, we had no flashlights because the men had them. Olivia did go comfort one women whose family was dead.

While the dozen of men cut through what seemed like a forest of trees, we were hearing stories of people suffering and dying on the road sides.

The Welsh Retreat Center on day 3, the Lee’s home was just on the back side of it.

The windows were blown out and everything tossed around inside.

Remains of the Lee’s Home - Day 3

When Jeff first got word that the Lees were trapped he left his chainsaw and began running and climbing mounds of trees to get to OUR PEOPLE! By the time he got there the Lees had been dug out and moved to the Retreat Center; then he ran to the Boyds, there he found the rest of OUR PEOPLE. Praise the LORD!

Our men came back to where we ladies were, dehydrated gasping for water and totally soaked in sweat as if they had just run a marathon. Jeff’s throat was raw from all the pine and lack of water and could hardly sallow. Again, it was confirmed that Tom was dead and John, who is a veterinarian, with an urgent, yet calm in his voice insisted we get to Tiffany as fast as we could, he was very concerned about her going into shock.

John, Trish, Johnny, Jed and myself arrived at the log cabin style Retreat Center which was still standing but looked as if a bomb had been set off on the inside. The Lees were sheltered there, they had already been pulled from their shredded house next door.

The EMTs were loading the Lee girls in an ambulance, their brother was already taken away. The family’s younger children were huddled in the center of the living room with only a few flashlights and the children were wrapped in blankets as they sat on top of debris, at least they were out of the rain and wind. Tom’s body was also in the Retreat Center but out of sight waiting for the officials.

Sherry Lee was the PERFECT image of a Godly woman. She was truly clothed with strength and dignity! (Prov 31). There were several fathers and sons there to aid Sherry and the children. There was a STRONG peace in that room even in the midst of physical and emotional pain. It was a totally different scene than what we had witnessed during the hours of trying to get to them.

Trish and I were the first women to arrive there with Sherry. She sweetly smiled when she saw us walk in, she hugged us and thanked us for coming. She praised our husbands and sons for their efforts to aid them. I have never been so humbled in all my life! Each of her daughters, even the little ones, crawled out of their blankets and thanked us for coming. This is how the Lees live, always thinking of others first! She talked of neighbors, concerned for their lives because some were not Christians. I felt so helpless! I just wanted to gather them all up and carry them out of there.

It was the most sobering, heart breaking thing to listen to Jordan slowly and clearly give the officials his father’s full name and birth date, never quivering and staying in complete control; what a heavy weight for a young MAN, his dad would be so proud!

I listened and watched as Jordan GENTLY led his mother into decisions that needed to be made. He led in a way that still gave her the final say. He would tenderly and slowly suggest what he thought was best and patiently waited for her decision, she trusted him. This was a family that lived in a spirit of love and unity, which brought the blessings of walking through a crisis in peace and unity.

Body Home Day 3 - Which has become a command center.

Jeff, Josh, John, Johnny, Jed and the girls went back to the Boyd’s home which was damaged but standing as it held all of our friends that were sheltered at the Crawfords, a total of 35 people. Trish and I stayed with Sherry. Then two men from our church came walking in, Ted Phillips, who is an elder and does most of our preaching and Alan Marsh, a deacon, both dear friends. It was so comforting to see “family” there. Their presence was strong, yet calm, just as everyone else’s in that Retreat Center. I must say, these men are REAL MEN…all of them. They all treated Sherry and her family with so much tenderness and respect.

(Revised and Updated) Account from Ted Phillips:

Mark Travers took the Lee family to the Travers home. Jordan, Duane, Alan, the Shultz brothers and I helped the coroners load Tom’s body into their vehicle. Then we stood still and watched silently with Jordan as they drove down the long drive and down the road out of site. When the coroner’s vehicle disappeared in the night, someone said, “Well done thou good and faithful servant, enter into the joy of your Father”. After that Duane took Jordan to find his brother and sisters in the hospital and I went to the Boyd’s until daybreak.

 

It was about 3:30 am by this point and Jeff came to make me go home. Some of Sherry’s closest women friends, the Shultzs, had arrived by now, and Tom’s body had been removed.

Our family got in Josh’s truck and drove carefully back to the van, passing ambulances and rescue squads; we watched the Lifesaver helicopters finally make their way in and out of the Valley several times.

Jeff and Josh changed my flat tire by flashlight…THEN I had a dead battery from the flashers being on so long! It was this feeling that we were never going to get home! Thankfully Josh had 20 ft. jumper cables…otherwise we’d been there longer.

We arrived back home a little after 4 am and collapsed into our beds only for the phone to begin ringing at 6:00 am, which began the work of clean up and food preparations …and A LOT of hugging and saying I LOVE YOU!

The Christian homeschool community here is a very tight knit one and a big one. This began the most amazing thing I have ever witnessed, where God gives beauty for ashes…: Part 2

Alabama Tornadoes

As most of you know we have been very busy helping our dear friends. Below are video clips, I’ll let them tell their story:

 

Jordan will bring God glory as he carries on his father’s legacy in Godly manhood!


Some of our dearest friends!
 

 

Thankfully our home received no damage, just the loss of power for the last few days.

Tomorrow (Sunday) we will attend the funeral of Tom Lee, a very humble man who is greatly respected by all that knew him.

We have much to be thankful for.

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