Teaching Good Things, Practical Skills for Real Life

Equipping Families with Practical Skills for Real Life!

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A Bible Study for You Locals

MC900441595Starting in June, I will be hosting a ladies’ Bible study. We will begin our study with Lies Women Believe: And the Truth that Sets Them Free.

The Bible study will be held at Sav-a-Life. One of my prayers is that there will be ladies joining us that have used the center’s services and will desire mentor-ship in Biblical womanhood.

Of course, I look forward to fellowship, encouragement and teaching from many of you ladies that are already more mature in the faith!

If you have any questions please just send me an email.

So pass the word.

 ”Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good,  and so train the young women to love their husbands and children,  to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.”

 Titus 2:3-5

The Duty of a Christian Home

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A home is not just a place to hang our hat, a place to get a hot shower, grab something to eat and sleep a bit before we run out and do it all again.

Home is our center! It is a place to rest, recharge, but mostly to be invested in.

It is the place, whether we live alone or our walls are bursting with people and noise, where we all work to come back to… or at least it should be.

As I stated the other day, “Ladies, if you aren’t making your house a home, WHO WILL?”

Food, laundry, shopping, organization, bill pay and cleaning are just the basics that need to be taken care of, and those all take time, energy and thought! OR maybe it doesn’t get done…then we don’t want to come home…and neither does anyone else.

But home is also where the most important relationships happen;

again they take  TIME,  ENERGY  and  PLANNING!

Actually, they take MORE time, energy and planning than housekeeping.

OR maybe the relationships are neglected just as our houses are neglected and we dread coming home to strife or loneliness?

The DUTY to impact our community is  just as important as the upkeep of our home and the care of our family. Each Christian home should be it’s own mission base to reach out to the needy, and to be an example of  and fight for what is right and good.

“…what does the LORD require of you but

to do justice,

and to love kindness,

and to walk humbly with your God?”

Micah 6:8

Our communities are a mess because our homes and families are a mess. Even Christians, especially Christians, have neglected their homes and their family relationships to go do ‘good work’ at the church building, turning charity over to the church budget committee and civil government.

Wouldn’t it be wiser… and more powerful to have 40 home mission bases in a community than just a few churches?

Religion that is pure and undefiled before God,

the Father,

is this:

to visit orphans and widows in their affliction,

and to keep oneself unstained from the world.

James 1:27

Discipleship is ALL about relationships. And lasting relationships happen ONLY on a small scale.

If you have children at home, they will take the bulk of your time and energy. What you want to aim for is to raise them up to be strong in the faith and Godly character so that they will be equipped to establish their own home mission base one day.

Think about it. If you raise of 3 children to be productive, responsible and active members in your community, who reach out to the needy and share Truth, and then they raise up 4-5 more and they do the same then our communities will REALLY be impacted. But if your goal is to have more sheetrock and better things and more entertainment there will be no lasting impact.

The wisest of women builds her house,
but folly with her own hands tears it down.

Proverbs 14:1

So the question is, are you being a wise woman and building your home?

  • Are you building your home mission base?
  • Are you encouraging and helping your Captain (husband)? Titus 2
  • Are you doing him good all the days of your life? Proverbs 31
  • Are you training up warrior-servants (children) to go out into the world around them? Training takes YEARS, make sure they are ready first. This is a full time job!
  • Are you reaching out to the needy? Proverbs 31
  • Are you teaching or practicing hospitality? Romans

You and I, will account to the Almighty how we have built our home!

Teach Wisdom and Hope They Get It!

We have been doing a lot of character study in our home about the difference between a wise person and a foolish person.

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A GREAT way to study Proverbs is to have your children keep a notebook with two columns, one side titled WISE and the other FOOLISH. As you read the Bible together, especially Proverbs, have them write down that verse or characteristic.

“Foolishness is bound up in the heart of a child…” Proverbs 22:15

Teaching wisdom is a full time job!

You should keep a wisdom notebook too!

This is a great site of you want to do a word study: OpenBible.info.

The sad truth is that not everyone will get wisdom…get understanding, but you still have to teach it!

Be careful to never confuse education or intelligence with wisdom. We have too may foolish smart people walking around out there! Wisdom and understanding comes from God based on His Word.

How Bad Do You Want It?

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We want good relationships.

We want lasting, happy marriages.

We want respectful children.

We want our homes filled with peace.

We want good health.

We want to know God better.

The questions is, how bad do we want it?

Granted there is no perfect spouse…

no perfect child…

no perfect family…

no perfect job…

and no perfect church.

But there are things that we can do to make life better…

more peaceful…

more meaningful…

more successful.

So how bad do you want it?

Do you want it bad enough to search for real answers?

Are you willing to re-evaluate everything in your life in the light of Scripture?

Are you willing to quit worrying about what people…family, will say about you and return to the old paths by doing something new?

Are you willing to quit running after the American Dream which is filled with busyness, arrogance and materialism and run after a life of simplicity, a life of quality not quantity?

Will you run after a life where relationships are more important than anything else?

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Ladies, if YOU don’t make your house a home, who will?

YOU were designed to be the homemaker, to nurture and train up.

You are are the one to be guarding the relationships, training up the children in the way they should go. You are to be reaching out to the needy.

The question is, do you want it bad enough?

What are you willing to do to give your husband the love and respect commanded by God? Where are you investing your heart and energy? Quit giving him your leftovers!

What are you willing to do to make sure your children have good memories of growing up…of a HOME, with a mother who enjoyed her home and family? A HOME with hot, nutritious meals and clean laundry?

What are you willing to do to make sure they are taught

self-control…

diligence…

generosity?

Do you need to repent and ask God for guidance?

Do you need to ask your husband for direction and then heed his advice even if you disagree with him?

Do you need to give up a career, activities, clubs or hobbies to create that peaceful home? That home that everyone wants to come home to. The home that after they move out they will miss?

Do you need a mentor to help you because you have no idea how to start to make your house a home, or how to mend broken relationships?

How bad do you want it?

There are endless resources to help you with the practical end of things, but where do you start?

You start at what the Scriptures say a woman is suppose to be.

Find a mentor that is truly wise, who has found joy and peace in her duties, a woman whose children do rise up and call her blesses.  Not necessarily a Bible teacher, but a woman who is grateful and who has created a home. They are hard to find, that is why need to do what it takes to redeem home life, to reclaim true womanhood, to rediscover true homemaking.

I have several free resources here on the homemaking page.

 

Economics 101… yard sales and hard earned money.

Today was another real life lesson in economics.

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The children had some money they had worked for and they were ready to hit the yard sales.  They could only buy what they had money for, and Olivia made sure EVERYONE haggled for the lowest price! And if the seller would not come down Olivia wouldn’t let them buy it. ;)

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Peach scored some new shades for 50 cents! She lost her last pair so she had to replace them herself.

The boy replaced his neglected-puppy-chewed bike helmet for $1, this was AFTER I took him to Wal-Mart and showed him a new helmet would be $15!

And Cherish bought some new babies to care for.

Thankfully we didn’t come home with any of the baby pot belly pigs they found at one yard sale!

It was great ‘school day’!

 

 

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A Creative Girl Alters Prom Dress

This is a guest post from a dear friend about how her daughter chose to alter a prom dress that she loved.

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Haley tries very hard not to “conform to this world” and finding a formal dress that doesn’t do that is very difficult. We prayed before we left the day of the search and of course the Lord met our prayers above what we expected. The first store we stopped at was not even a store we were going to look for the dress at, however, she came excitedly to me holding up the dress she has on in the picture. The only difference was that it was strapless. It was so beautiful that she had to try it on…it was even more beautiful on.

Since she has such a creative mind, she began to tell me what she thought she could do to make the dress modest. I was a little skeptical, but knew once she set her mind to something, she would do her best to follow through.

On a different day, we decided to go material shopping for sleeves for the dress. We were hoping for a contrasting material. We were disappointed with our first trip, but didn’t throw in the towel because we had one more fabric store to check. On the morning of our next trip, we once again prayed for the right fabric to fix the dress modestly. Still expecting to find a contrasting material we were speechless to walk into the fabric store and find the exact material the dress was made of.

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This is a second option on how the sleeves could be worn.

Haley then went to work to design the sleeves for the dress and attach them. I am so proud of not only the work that she did, but also for her heart to represent herself in a modest fashion. The Lord is so faithful to answer our prayers daily.

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How to Make a Cake from Fresh Fruit

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Since Emma is sticking to her wellness plan which includes 90% raw fruit and vegetables along with juicing, it was a challenge to make her a cake this year for her birthday.

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So I made her one from fresh fruit using a seedless watermelon. I just cut the end flat and carved it as one piece.

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 I used toothpicks to piece it all on, even used a small letter M cookie cutter (only thing I had on hand) to make a ‘garland’ under the kiwi  Olivia made the lemon and orange roses from some rind. I garnished the top layer and the lemon roses with fresh mint leaves from Olivia’s herb garden. I then carved the “19″ from a slice of cantaloupe.

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 It was a great evening, celebrating her birthday as a newlywed…lots of love spillin’ over around here! Is there anything more beautiful that seeing your child in love and both of them walking in the right direction on the path of faithfulness?

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 The weather has been beautiful!

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Olivia made some California rolls, a family favorite!

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A perfect evening to relax and laugh… settling into our new normal!

Maybe next year I’ll get to make her a regular cake. :)
 

A New Patchwork Quilt

Olivia shares a room with her younger sisters. I give her decorating freedom to do what she wants, within reason.  So she recently painted the walls from a lime green (Emma’s choice a few years ago), to a very calm grey.

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Jeff built a bunk bed for the two younger girls and with Emma now married and out of the nest, there is actually an empty wall, Liv calls this her ‘serenity wall’.  During this week she filled her serenity wall with a quilting project.

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She made this patchwork quilt for Cherish’s bed.

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You can learn how to make a patchwork quilt with our DVD.

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Preparation Takes Years and the Years are Short!


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Don’t let this sweet little face fool you, this girl is a firecracker…

she keeps all of us hoppin’!

Because all we’ve talked about in our house for the last 4 months has been wedding, Peachy girl will ask when is she going to get married, I would respond, “You need to learn to obey first.”

The making of a good husband or a good wife does not start on the wedding day, it actually takes years of training.

If a girl thinks that she can snag a guy based on her pretty face they are both in for a big surprise after the honeymoon. She will need a meek and gentle spirit, which does not come naturally.  She will need to know how to manage her home and help her husband (Titus 2).

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Our guys need to know that being a good husband means serving, protecting and providing. They need to be men of courage. They NEED all of their childhood to learn how to be a good man, to be a good husband and father.

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It starts when they are young. It is up to us to give them a Biblical view of marriage. It is not a self-seeking, 50-50 arrangement.

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It is a covenant with the Creator, to carry out His work. It is a refection of Christ and the Church. It is a laying down our life, regardless of the circumstances for the other.

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And only when we have a Biblical view of marriage can we dance through life as Christ directs our steps.

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Our time is so very short to teach our children the important things,

the things that will really equip them for life, in skills and in relationships.

Don’t blink, because before you know it, your baby girl will be a woman and she will be carrying on your legacy for the glory of God (or not).  Are you giving her a heart for the things of God or the things of the world? Parents, be careful that you are training them up in the way they should go, don’t allow them to waste away their childhood on endless foolishness and self-seeking activities!

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